Funeral flowers
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the weeks after the funeral or cremation it is also important to show the deceased's
next of kin that they are in your thoughts. Flower bouquets can be used to
brighten their mood - every time they look at your gift they will be reminded
that you care.
Here are a few guidelines to help you when selecting funeral flower arrangements:
- Check to see if the family of the deceased have requested donations to
a charity in lieu of flowers. However, it is still appropriate to send funeral
flower as a memorial tribute as they are always appreciated
- There is a wide variety of floral tributes such as sprays, baskets, wreaths,
planters and designs that reflect the personality of the deceased. Your florist
can advise you according to your budget.
- When ordering the flowers you may need to give the florist details of the
funeral. Remember some flowers may be seasonal or unavailable so, where necessary,
the florist may have to make substitutions.
- Name tributes and coffin decorations are usually only presented by the
family of the deceased. Such tributes are often arranged to reflect the personality,
profession or hobby of the deceased.
- Any floral arrangement given is a tribute and can comfort the family of
the deceased. Don't worry about the 'meaning' or colour of the individual
flowers; just choose something you find appropriate.
- Ensure a sympathy card is attached. A message or obituary poem could be
treasured by the family as it can offer a lasting tribute.
- Some funeral homes have rules concerning some kinds of arrangements. If
your tribute is outside the norm, consider contacting the home to ensure
your tribute is appropriate.
- Sending tributes from a group (i.e. work, sports team or social group)
is perfectly acceptable. One large arrangement can have a greater effect
than several small ones. Consider writing the group's name on the card rather
than a long list of names.
Take the deceased's religious ideals into account when choosing sympathy funeral flowers - are they appropriate or is it appropriate to send flowers? Most religions find it an appropriate gesture as they can signify rebirth or eternal life.
Local religious leaders or your
florist should be able to offer advice.
Helping friends or loved ones
If someone you know loses a loved one its important to stay in touch. Sending flowers can let your friend or loved one know that you are thinking of them and that you are there for them. As well as flowers you also give them a call instead of avoiding them, ask if its a good time and let them know that its ok if they don't feel like talking. Offer practical help such as baby sitting or running errands, perhaps offer to meet up with them but be prepared for them to need some more time.
Appropriate flower bouquets
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This wreath would be appropriate for a funeral but not suitable for as a sympathy item.
It has delicate blue shades of iris and september and white Gerberas.
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A vibrant orange and yellow mix is ideal if the flowers are to be sent after the service to a nursing home,
hospital or taken by relatives to their home as a remembrance.
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